Because Of Lyle
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"Many of us think about what we will leave behind when we die -- it may be money, property or cherished family mementos. Lyle did not have any of these things to leave us.
I tried to think of what Lyle would leave behind for us and, as I thought about Lyle's life, I realized the impact he had on so many people.
Because of Lyle many of us learned to accept people for who they are -- not what they look like, not their position in life, or the money they have. He taught us to embrace what is unique in another person and appreciate what they bring to our lives.
Because of Lyle I have been given the gift to pursue a career that has brought me more joy and satisfaction than I could imagine. As I make decisions regarding the lives of people with disabilities I have always asked the question, "Would I want this for Lyle?"
Because of Lyle our Mom and Dad taught us the importance of family. As we were growing up, it was not always easy to accept Lyle for who he was and sometimes we tried to ignore his presence in our family. Mom and Dad always made sure that Lyle was a part of our family. As I have grown up I now realize that when one family member is missing it leaves a hole that can never be filled.
Because of Lyle the many people who have worked with him have learned the importance of giving people with disabilities the choice of where they want to live, work and play. He taught so many people that we all want to be respected and heard.
Because of Lyle we now understand that the simple things in life are the most important. Lyle loved his family, visiting our Mom, reading the morning newspaper, Nebraska basketball, Alan Jackson and root beer!
Because of Lyle we know that it is not important how much money or things we leave behind. What is important is how we treat each other, how we respond to those in need and taking the time to cherish and appreciate everyone we love.
This is Lyle's Legacy."
